Out of curiosity, could you take a moment to reblog this if you believe that demisexuality exists? I’m demisexual, and I feel like demisexuality goes really under the radar, even within the asexual community umbrella. A lot of people don’t believe that it exists, and even within the ace community, demisexuality is still questioned as being legitimate, although we share the same flag. So reblog this is if you believe it exists.
Anonymous said: Hi, I have a semi-question. I think I am cis because I was assigned female and I currently identify as female, but also sometimes I want to not be female, but I still want people to call me female? But I would also not mind if people didn't call me female. But then other times I feel really "girly." But then other times I want to be a man and a woman at the same time. Idk, I guess this part isn't really a question, I just feel broken. Also, what does dysphoria feel like?
FIrst question: you should look at alternative genders because “guy” and “girl” are two of the huge rainbow of possibilities and you might not be either, or you might be all of them, or none! Look at my FAQ.
As for the second part … dysphoria feels different for different people but to me it’s knowing something is wrong. It doesn’t matter if it looks decent, it’s not supposed to be there. It’s like waking up with demonic spikes and having people around you ignoring, even complimenting the thing you can’t fucking stand and desperately want to change.
Dysphoria feels like letting your mouth smell terrible because you can’t stand looking at yourself in the mirror for the two minutes required to brush your teeth.
Dysphoria feels like a slow ache, that creeps and gets worse every day, and slowly but surely is picking the lock to the last safe space in your brain. It feels like wondering whether or not today’s the day when you’re going to give in to that annoying, hateful version of your voice.
It’s the thing that nearly killed me.
Anonymous said: To the person who prefers masturbation to sex- your girlfriend might be feeling hurt and not good enough to get you off. That's how I felt for a while with multiple partners who preferred the same as you.
Anonymous said: By any chance do you know of any low cost binders that are still decent quality? I'm a college student and don't have much extra money.
you can make one with this tutorial if you have a sewing machine.
Here’s a now-defunct website that reviewed binders.
I know underworks has great stuff, i do not know anything about their pricing.
tea-and-testosterone has a list about binders - part way down is about cheaper legit binders.
I hope this helps!
Anonymous said: My gf used to get mad at me b/c I preferred masturbation to having sex. She said it her was her job to please me. So I just had sex with her to make her happy. Is it weird that I preferred masturbation to sex?
It is not her JOB to please you. it is not weird to prefer masturbation to sex. Everyone has a different way they prefer to get off - yours just happens to be masturbation, not sex.
Communication with your significant other will help you both stay happy.
Toucan with a beak that is trans flag colored - blue/pink/white/pink/blue
Sending hugs to all my trans* friends.
today at work i asked a customer if he wanted french vanilla creamer with his coffee and he said no because he wanted the “heterosexual” creamer instead and it just blows my mind that straight people say shit about how queer people “force our sexuality on them” because i have never met a single queer person who has done something like assign a sexuality to coffee creamer
what does heterosexual creamer even mean
no homogenized milk